“Partners are like ‘part’ of you with a separate existence”-randomwriter
Weather you are a boy or girl, remember the days when u were single and looking for a perfect partner (girlfriend/ boyfriend/ spouse), you just wanted to do anything to get one.
Remember when you met your perfect one for the first time? You were ready to do anything, never calculating time, money or distance. You just wanted him or her to be in your life, whatever it may take. In those days all romantic lines from movies, songs and poetry were true, you were ready to get moon and stars for them.
But then, once you got your partner, as the time goes by, they become part of your life, someone who is always around and you start working for other targets in life like money, house, friends, job, etc etc.
In this race for achieving things, you forget all that you did and you dreamed with and for your partner. This happens with almost all but, it is important for us to remember past when we progress in life.
Your partner is your life, do not ever insult, shout, fight or show them low/ unimportant in front of others like your friends, family, colleagues or anyone else. These new people are in your life for a moment, for a reason and they will be gone once the things are done. Also, you might find them attractive and interesting just because they are new to your life but remember, even they will go old, even their stories will end and even they will become repetitive in your life. But, they will never love, care and look after you and your life like your partner. They will never hold your hand in any difficulty. They will not be with you when you are unwell, poor, jobless or useless.
But, your partner will always be with you in your good and bad. Always cherish the memories when you met and if ever you feel something else is more important- just remember what all you did and dreamt to get this partner.
He/ She is your life. Make them feel great, make them feel special, make them feel loved and make them feel best. They deserve all.